Is it Wrong to Manifest Your Specific Person?

When I first got into the Law of Assumption, I was a little bit worried about manifesting a specific person.

I thought that maybe it would be wrong to manifest a specific person and that it would be playing around with someone else’s free will.

I was also worried that if I “manifested” someone and “manifested” someone’s love for me that it would mean their love wasn’t really real and that I just manipulated and manifested their love instead.

I thought manifesting someone was manipulating their own feelings and it would mean that they really didn’t truly love you and they would only be loving you because you manifested them into loving you.

When I manifested my crush texting me, all I wanted to do is make sure everything came directly from him and that I wasn’t influencing him or manipulating the energy in order to make him fall in love with me. I wanted him to love me just the way I was and not because I had been working on manifesting a relationship with him.

To put these thoughts to rest, I turned to Neville Goddard, the founder of the Law of Assumption.

Here’s what Neville Goddard said that really helped me to understand that manifesting your specific person isn’t wrong or unethical:

"Everyone is yourself pushed out, so when you imagine you are influencing yourself."
– Neville Goddard

Everyone is yourself pushed out.

So when I am trying to manifest my specific person, I am not doing anything to change him.

I am only using the Law of Assumption, by imagining and assuming that we are already in a relationship together, but in reality, I am changing, transforming, and influencing myself.

And I am influencing the way he sees me.

So, if I imagine that my specific person is obsessed and in love with me, then that means I am influencing myself and I am becoming obsessed with myself and I am loving me.

Everything that I am doing to try to manifest my specific person is really about me trying to influence their perception of me, but in reality, it’s my perception of me that I am changing.

I am believing and knowing that I am the one.

I am special.

I am amazing.

I am smart.

I am hot.

I am sexy.

I am confident.

I love me.

When you are using your imagination to manifest something or someone, you are changing and transforming yourself.

You are not changing them. You are changing you so that the outer world can reflect this change.

And you are not manipulating or controlling the other person. You are only changing what is being reflected back to you by changing the way you see yourself.

Here is another great quote by Neville Goddard:

Stop trying to change the world since it is only the mirror. Man's attempt to change the world by force is as fruitless as breaking a mirror in the hope of changing his face. Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world alone and change your conceptions of yourself. -Neville Goddard

In my book, How to Manifest Your Specific Person, you will be transforming your identity and your self-concept to be the person who is already in a relationship with your SP.

You are transforming your identity and your self-concept to be someone who is already in a relationship with your SP.

So, the only person you are changing is yourself and you are changing your mind about yourself so that everyone else will conform to your new self-concept. 

You have been doing this all of your life with the perceptions that you hold about yourself and others, but you were not consciously aware that you were doing it. 

So when you manifest a specific person that matches what you’ve been imagining and embodying, you have only manifested and attracted the reflection of the change that you made within yourself. 

You are changing your identity so that others reflect this change that you made within. 

Since this is a process of changing your self-concept and your identity, there is nothing wrong with manifesting your specific person.

But, before you start manifesting your specific person, it’s important that you feel safe and secure about manifesting them and that you don’t have any wonky energy surrounding manifesting them.

Grab my book, How to Manifest Your Specific Person, so you can get all of the worksheets and the exact steps you need to take in order to attract and manifest your specific person.

And remember, you are not manipulating or controlling them. You are simply changing yourself so that the outer world reflects this change.